Forget Resolutions, I’m getting real

Well here I am still technically unemployed and still smiling at least.   I have to say I have received some really great words of encouragement and love.  It’s wonderful to know that I have people who have my back.  The job market in this town just isn’t very promising at this point though.  I have applied for EI and hopefully will have that as a go to if needed.  It still won’t be enough to fuel my life but hey its better than borrowing or hooking!  (My aunt loves it when I say that).  I have decided that I am willing to relocate if need be and maybe that’s not a bad thing.  Halifax could be a viable option especially with the music scene there!  We will see what unfolds.

 So how are my new years resolutions going?  Well not really going well but starting a few things.  I honestly haven’t even made New Years Resolutions in years but this year I decided to and Im not sure why.  Sunday, as per my lose 50lbs resolution I did track my food so I have one point there AND I did take my kids swimming so another point on the exercise front.  I didn’t stay within my calorie limit but Im not going to be too hard on myself since I did more good than bad!  Two steps forward one step back sometimes.  I didn't write it but I love Holly McNarland and the message is how I feel.

Dating resolution, well I’ve since had 2 dates but one was delayed so it ended up happening in the new year plus he was too cute to pass up and the other was more of a chill and watch movies.  See the thing is that I'm a social butterfly and I like having company and whatnot.  I really did think it would be easy to just not date haha..  I think it’s just a matter of getting into the mindset where I am exicuting my intentions in music, health and live so when someone is meant to come into my life they will.  That or I’ll date and have fun again ether way I have to let it flow but not until I do get back on track with the things that really matter.  So here is a video I really love that reflects how I feel.  “I hate to be alone sometimes, but sometimes alones just fine”  

I read the DIY newsletter sent out by Brian Thompson of Thorny Bleeder Records and when I have the time I’ll listen to the podcast too.  MusicBiz Weekly Podcast #91 - Back to Basics: Prepping for Future Success with Michale Brandvold. There were a few things that hit home like not setting goals but setting intentions, breaking it down and being realistic but not limiting yourself.  I’ve decided to throw my “resolutions “out the window and really focus on where I want to be this time next year.  This is not a resolution it’s more of a way of life.  I think I got overwhelmed because I failed to chunk it down but after listining to Brian and Michael I have been inspired.

Set your intentions and believe!

Xo

 

JR

Resolutions that rock. Im ready for 2013!

I am taking a few moments to blog since I am at my moms and it is finally quiet!  I want to reflect on 2012 and yes it was another one for the books.  I think I say that every year but really this past year was a very good one.  I made some really amazing changes in my life at the end of 2011 that carried though to this past year.  The lessons I learned and people I have met this year are ones that will be with me throughout my life.  That’s the kind of person I am though, I take it all as lessons and look at the positive aspects of anything that happens. 

High points:

• Getting a grant to record an album in 2013 from the province of NB
• Playing at the ECMA’s and Music NB, Dooryard Arts and many festivals with my band!
• Cutting my hair off
• Running 5k
• Being more happy with myself then ever
• Seeing the amazing support from my family and friends
• Getting fired! (Seriously it was a great thing)
• Meeting so many amazing people

I’m actually really happy with this past year but realize that there is and always will be something to work on. The last few months I feel like I’ve been off and this is the perfect time of year to rejuvenate and get a refreshed outlook on my life goals and just continuing to follow the paths that will lead me to reaching them.

Resolutions for 2013:

• Reach my weight loss goal of 150lbs by August 20, 2013 at 8:00am!
• Break my procrastination issue
• Manage my time better by scheduling activities
• Mange my money better and follow a budget more diligently
• Not dating from Jan 1, 2013 until I reach my weight loss goal (this was my facebook status epiphany  ;P)
• Run 3-5 times a week (not for weight loss but for me)
• Become more proactive not reactive with my kids
• Execute my marketing pan for the album fully
• Make it to Toronto for a visit and also gig there

I seriously am going to take a break from the dating world (sorry Jasmine!) because as fun as it is I need some more me time. I will be sad not to make it into Jasmines blog for a while though haha. We have such fun together but its only until I reach my weight loss goal.  It’s amazing though the guys that I have met and friendships I’ve made though so I can’t stay its bad it’s just distracting me from other things.  Also to be honest since I’ve lost weight its shocked me the people who approach me....its cool I just wonder what I will attract when I get to the other part of this journey.  I know that looks shouldn’t matter but really I’m not gonna lie, they do.  It’s one part physical and the other confidence though really.  I think I’m still single mainly because I’m not ready to be with anyone while I still have work to do.  It’s like sitting down to dinner with everything not quite cooked…it still looks ok but would be better if you waited.  Haha that’s my analogy!

 

 

Plus I have so much writing left to do and to work on my album I don’t need men mucking up my mind since I have enough material for a few albums gotta get it all out.  I don’t love easy and when I fall, I fall hard so I better just tuck that away till the time is right. I’ve already had my share of heartbreak this year and really I’m grateful for it.  Recently fell for someone who was completely wrong for me anyway but we had such an amazing time together. I mean he is a musician, he made me laugh constantly, we wrote some music, he was so sexy ugg…it was hard not to develop feelings.  I got the ole “We can only be friends” message and from that point realized…ok I’ve had enough. I have a few dates left before New Year’s and I’m going to have fun and then after that.  It’s me time :)

 

I’m also going to start off the New Year with my Free Week of Yoga from Nirvana that Jonas gave me. I have eaten there a million times but never did yoga in his studio so I am super excited.  It’s a beautiful place and has the most amazing energy so if you get a chance go check it out too!  You get a free bliss ball on your first visit too YUM!

 

I am wishing you the best for 2013 because no matter what happens it’s a new year.  We can make it what we want right!

 

Much love,

 

 

 

JR

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So its summertime..no? Yes!

Happy summer!

It’s that time of year where summer isn’t technically here yet but the weather gets better, flowers are in full bloom and schools almost out for the kiddies.  I love it because  I have been getting outside more its lovely.

So…. you might have noticed I’ve lost some weight.  About 65lbs since last fall and I feel much better.  I have changed how I eat and have been doing that thing where I exercise its grand!  Running a few days a week and training to run 5k with some awesome woman. I still have more work to do but if any of you are struggling...just know if I can do it anyone can for sure.  I have a super busy life and it’s hard to manage at times but it just takes a change in your mind and you will be astonished at what you can accomplish.  

So since I have had some success at weight loss I wanted to kick it up a notch and make my face all pretty too.  I’ve been getting my makeup done for pictures and shows at Made You Blush here in Fredericton and they have been doing a great job.  They use really nice products and I just feel better having a pro do it for special events.  I've even done it just for me because lots of people go in for a lesson/application too. Seriously stop by and tell them I sent you ;)

I have some cool news for you and might even ask a wee little favor if you can spare a minute.  My song “Corner of my Eye” is on the East Coast Countdown! You will find my name at www.eastcoastcountdown.com and under it you will see a vote link.  Click’er, confirm (say yes) then you’re done.  You don’t have to sign up for anything and you can do it once a day.  I mean if you like the song that is ;)

I will have CD’s available next week by Friday June 2) as I just put in an order yesterday.  They will be available at shows and even if you want to get in touch with me I don’t mind delivering.  Send me an email at info@jaclynreinhartmusic.com or hit me up on facebook. Don’t forget you can always download on iTunes or most online music outlets.  Just search Jaclyn Reinhart…I’m all over the internet haha!

I will leave you with a list of upcoming shows because if you can come out to one that would make me happy because I like to make you happy!

Upcoming shows:

Sun June 17 - 9:00 PM Fusion Nightlife Fredericton (solo)
Tue June 19 - 7:00 PM Officer's Square Fredericton
Sun July 1 - 3:30 PM Canada Day Officer Square Fredericton
Thurs July 5 - 9:00 PM Fusion Cafe Woodstock (solo) w/Matt McGuire

Much love, 

JR